I just caught Memnir saying something very silly:
“I know a few folks have commented that I get a custom forum tag along those lines - and I thank them mightily for it. [...] A forum title would be nice - but I honestly don’t need one. Nor am I sure I’m deserving of one. I try to make people laugh… not sure how that contributes to the forum as a whole.”
To see someone as clever as Memnir say this just boggles my mind.
Trying to make people laugh is, if done respectfully, a behavior that should be greatly rewarded. It’s an invaluable contribution to the forums. It’s certainly on the same footing as thorough feedback.
Memnir, do you really not realize how valuable posters like you are?!
Internet forums tend be a very negative place, especially gaming forums. Most people find it easier to insult others and you then need heavy moderation to strengthen them up. As a result, many people will outright avoid them in order to escape that unneeded negativity. That’s a loss of feedback for Turbine and the loss of an incredible source of information for the player. No one wins.
By having posts where people are being silly, it makes the forums much more enjoyable to visit: I’ll go visit the forums to see what silliness the people there have came up with.
Not only that, but it humanizes us.
Since the forums are a place for us all to debate and argue, it’s natural for tensions to build up and, because there is no face to face contact, it’s easy to forget that the person on the other end is more than a bunch of pixels on the screen. We get to see a more complete profile of the poster than the confrontational aspect of debates would otherwise allow us to see.
Threads where we joke and laugh help us remind us that we’re all humans, and thus build mutual respect from one to another.
This is why Turbine it is beneficial when Turbine employees just jump in and joke with us. It makes the respect the community has for those individuals grow. This goes for moderators too, by the way.
Just because a poster is not posting srs stff, it does not mean that his contribution.
Quite the contrary, posters with a goal as noble as “just trying to make people laugh” should be encourage in doing so and those who are as good at it as Memnir is should be acknowledged by the community, and Turbine, for being great posters that have a positive influence on these forums.
Even if it’s just with a forum title, it’s important to acknowledge those who have a positive influence on the community.
The forums ain’t a place reserved for srs dscssns.